Stop using OPT-IN and OPT-OUT

In various conversations on Consent, including #FHIR Consent, discussions often get mixed-up because we use the terms "OPT-IN" and "OPT-OUT". These terms are trouble. We need to stop using “OPT-IN” and “OPT-OUT”.I want to propose a set of terms. I will never get everyone to stop using opt-in and opt-out, but where better terms can be used, I propose better terms. Better, as in, more descriptive and accurate communications.The reason is that these terms can mean very different things based on...